vibes please serious trouble here today

[Oldtoe]

Big-time vibes your way, Pzo. Take it easy, sir.

[PzoLover]

Hey Everybody, thanx Large amounts for your msgs and vibes here today and always ... I'm feeling badly about wasting your time and bandwidth with my worries like this, and so all I can feel good about doing is sending good vibes back to YouZ'Alland special thanx for listening to my tale of woe ... this is powerful family dynamics stuff for sure ... SWeetheart had her own CVA last year (which is how we met in rehab) and it seems her family (early 30s kids, half her age, have caught themselves in a sibling rivalry thing (guilt driven about which of them is the best and most caring offspring ... part of this internal family tension is magnified because soome are thousands of miles away and one is hundreds of miles away and they're jockeying to see who can grandstand the biggest and "parachute" in with lots of flash and noise to impress "Mom" about how much they "care" every time they get wind that Mom needs some assistance doing any thing, so, today's session was about "parachuting " in to make Mom feel "loved" on Valentine's day, all the while resenting the fact that since last summer, Mom has found somebody else to keep her company day to day, and on Special days ... so, now the jealousy creeps in to the mix, and I'm refusing to play their game about "who is the most loving of Mom's support network ... some of the reflex action is about"how dare an outsider intrude into "family" stuff.. my determination is to not go down to their level and get involved in their Pissing contest
meanwhile, Mom ain't exactly stupid, but she *is* a *Mom* and doesn't want to be too exact about her unhappiness with their insecure behaviour and intrusions into her private life and I'm trying not to hurt her feelings by expressing myself too bluntly about their direspectful actions and rudeness(blood's thicker than water)... there's other stuff in the mix, but this is the EBMM forum, not a soap opera and so, all I can wish for YouZ'All now, is good, happy and peaceful communications in your families and continued good health and more new BONGOs for everybody,

Thanx again everybody, and, now, back to regular Forum chatter
ATB,
/PL
at my end, Monday is my first meeting with my new mentor and today was a phone call from another major rehab unit about my future outpatient therapy and also today,test driving new motorchairs so I can get out and about easier, more often,
so, today wasn't all bad, but I'm sure the good stuff was in BIG part because of the positive vibes and support from everybody here ... Thanx again LARGE, OK?eh?

[bigvissch]

Saddened to hear of your tale PZO but I'm hoping your feelin the love brother, from beautifully warm and sunny Melbourne.:

Music is the ultimate therapy for me, whether its listening or playing. So I recommend a good dose to soothe your soul. Much good vibes to you!

[oddjob]

Pzo, sorry to be jumping in late (grading papers took up my evening and then some)... sorry to hear the tale but good vibes are headed your way from Cincinnati!

[PzoLover]

Saddened to hear of your tale PZO but I'm hoping your feelin the love brother, from beautifully warm and sunny Melbourne.:

Music is the ultimate therapy for me, whether its listening or playing. So I recommend a good dose to soothe your soul. Much good vibes to you!

Hey rob,
your avatar lookslike my Black Cherry Burst/, Whprloid/,maple SR5, and right on about Music, reminds me of a YOutube clip I found the other night of an Eagles gig in Melbourne, the one of Hotel Californiawith the engaging horn solo intro
did you catch that gig?
and tnx for the vibes, man
ATB,
/PL

[Colin]

hope it all works out for you

[oli@bass]

V.I.B.E.S.

Oh, and enjoy your front row seat of the daily soap... ;-)
Just kidding. Listen to some music, hear basslines, dream bongos.
Spread your wings and fly away, fly away, fly away...

[strummer]

Sorry I'm late my friend, but I hope you know I've got this constant flow of good vibes going your way!

[mammoth]

chin up bruv!

[AnthonyD]

Pzo - not surprising to find you've got the right attitude - half the battle right there.

Stay focused on those positives and keep moving forward, with both your personal challenge as well as this wonderful relationship that has come from it!

[bigvissch]

Hey rob,
your avatar lookslike my Black Cherry Burst/, Whprloid/,maple SR5, and right on about Music, reminds me of a YOutube clip I found the other night of an Eagles gig in Melbourne, the one of Hotel Californiawith the engaging horn solo intro
did you catch that gig?
and tnx for the vibes, man
ATB,
/PL

Hey Pzo, No unfortunately I missed it. I'll certainly go an check out the YouTube clip though. Thanks.

Actually that avatar photo is a little dark. The colour is Honeyburst. Beautiful colour and beautiful bass. 13 years on and our relationship is still going strong.

ATB to you.