bovinehost
Administrator
Anyway, as I was leaving, I say to him, "If you ever get a 5 string Bongo in stock, let me know and I'll come down and try it", I leave him my cellphone number (hint, hint!). Well, 2 months later I'm still waiting for that call. This guy knows I can easily afford a Bongo, I'm eager to try one and would most probably end up buying it. He also happens to be next in line to own the store, yet he cannot be bothered to chase a sale.
Without getting inside the head of someone I'll never meet, I can only say that if I don't value each and every customer - and potential customer, really - then I don't deserve the sale. As to what your pal there believes, I don't know and can't guess. I can only speak for myself, and I don't really even SELL basses. I just love them, have the passion for them and was just in the right place at the right time - and they sell themselves. And I don't have to fool around with brands I don't love, I don't have to try to sell Mr and Mrs Homeowner a clarinet for Junior and I never worry about selling drum accessories. I'm also not getting rich, but I don't have to. If my living depended on this, well, I guess I'd be asking you what kind of clarinet you think Junior would enjoy. So perhaps your shopowner's offspring is thinking about sousaphones. I don't know, but I do understand what you're saying.
Perhaps they should be asking the question why no-one really wants to deal with them.
Perhaps from our point of view, yes, they should be asking that question. (The consumer's point of view, I mean.) And maybe if I were in your shoes, I'd write a nice letter to the owner of the shop, explaining how I'd really enjoy having a responsive local place to burn my discretionary income...and what sort of things they could do to make themselves over into exactly that kind of establishment. What I mean is, if they're making a living doing the same old things, they might not really understand that they are missing the boat. It's hard to change, I know that....but we're a global community now. There are different ways to do business. You bass-purchasing lunatics have figured it out, so maybe the thing to do is try to help your old dinosaur-era shops get onboard by telling them what they can do to get your wallet to empty its contents?
And what BP said. A dealer who doesn't get involved here is ignorant. It's not about making the sale, not always. It's knowing what's available, what's coming next, how the factory works, forming relationships, being a real part of the family instead of an unknown distant cousin that never comes over to eat.
Jack