Colin,
Your good-heartedness and the priority and dedication that you give to your family and to your ex-father in law is inspiring. Best wishes and warm regards for you for strength, health, faith, and peace. We look forward to hearing from you again later when the time is ready. In the meantime, take care.
Hang in there Colin, there'll be better days ahead! Hope things will improve quickly for you and your whole family, tons of good vibes from the other side of the globe are already on the way...