This is my sentiment also. It really just depends on economics. I've stashed away plenty of times for months, until I can afford a new guitar without disrupting the household income. (Good old bills)
Fortunately I do a lot of freelance work so I split what I earn extra towards a gift for myself as a treat. The rest I use towards my family. While its extra income, it does take away from my family time. Just try and keep things in balance and be sensible.
Buy used if you need to also. Lots of good deals to be had and used can be just as good, save you plenty of dough.
Fully agree...
I've found that when it comes to buying and or selling (learned that one the hard way) that it's absolutley best to do 2 things.
1) Never under any circumstance short the house
2) Always keep the wife in the loop buying or selling they like to know whats going on.
My wife is a musician and knows that this is part of who i am... and supports it. As long as rules 1 & 2 (established by me) are followed i feel comfortable at any point saying I found this EBMM guitar and would like to buy it...
I've also redone 70% of my pedalboard within the last 3-4 months all by trade. It's a less expensive means to getting something different. $4-5 in shipping is more justifiable than 150-200 for a new pedal. There's a lot of great resources for such things just got to know who the good guys are and work with them.