Big Poppa
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Try a Dargie delight.....Look maybe its just a spat and you will have the pleasure of the best part of breakng up is makn up
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oddjob
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Truer words of wisdom have never be spoken (well there have but BP has it right!)Big Poppa said:
stretch80
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I'm an old married dude now, but I was real upset about the girl I broke up with just before I met the one who I married. You never know. Just be yourself, and hey - write some songs! they always come out better when you're bummin..
francric
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Sorry to hear that dude, keep your chin up. Remember things work out, they always do........
Mobay45
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Hey Arin. Sorry to hear about your woes. I have a friend who's fiance broke up with him a few months ago and he was pretty bummed out from that. I got a call from him today and he was pretty stoked about the new woman in his life.
It sucks, but if it's over there's another one out there. As good as she was, the next one may have some qualities that are even better.
It sucks, but if it's over there's another one out there. As good as she was, the next one may have some qualities that are even better.
phatduckk
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Big Poppa said:
ah man i wish! this seems to be more of a fatal flaw than a spat ... we've never argued, ever! been the best of friends ever since it started ... BUT the deal is that shes realized her feelings for me were nto going to go where she wanted them to go... alas, the fatal flaw.
but ill be good. thanks to all u guys for the good vibes ... now im gonna call james to get some free beer
Randracula
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Sorry to hear about your breakup Arin. I think the lyrics of the great Dr. Milo Aukerman are perfect for your situation.....
Pep Talk (Descendents 1987)
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You don't need her anyway
You're looking around for someone to love
So you don't have to face the world alone
But give it some time and you might find
That you're better off on you own
Cause you could be dead right now
You could be the stupidest thing in the world
But you're not, look at what you've got
And stop thinking about that girl
You deserve the best, but it's up to you to get it
Don't settle for less, you know you're gonna regret it
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You don't need her anyway
Watching the tube, moping around
Might as well be six feet underground
You're watching the game go by
Waiting for the final score
You got the beer commercials memorized
So you've probably heard this before
But this ain't the TV talking to you
It's a friend who's gonna tell you what you can do
You deserve the best, but it's up to you to get it
Don't settle for less, you're the best and don't you forget it
I know what you're thinking ... you'll never find another
And even if you did, well, you couldn't love her
But out there somewhere is the person, place or thing
That you need to make you believe in you
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You can find something better anyway
Just take your time. and you will find
What your life requires
Just take your time. and you will find
What your heart desires
Just take your time. and you will find
You will find
By the way I just tried calling you but got your voicemail.....
Pep Talk (Descendents 1987)
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You don't need her anyway
You're looking around for someone to love
So you don't have to face the world alone
But give it some time and you might find
That you're better off on you own
Cause you could be dead right now
You could be the stupidest thing in the world
But you're not, look at what you've got
And stop thinking about that girl
You deserve the best, but it's up to you to get it
Don't settle for less, you know you're gonna regret it
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You don't need her anyway
Watching the tube, moping around
Might as well be six feet underground
You're watching the game go by
Waiting for the final score
You got the beer commercials memorized
So you've probably heard this before
But this ain't the TV talking to you
It's a friend who's gonna tell you what you can do
You deserve the best, but it's up to you to get it
Don't settle for less, you're the best and don't you forget it
I know what you're thinking ... you'll never find another
And even if you did, well, you couldn't love her
But out there somewhere is the person, place or thing
That you need to make you believe in you
It's not the end of the world
Since your baby left you
It's gonna be okay
You can find something better anyway
Just take your time. and you will find
What your life requires
Just take your time. and you will find
What your heart desires
Just take your time. and you will find
You will find
By the way I just tried calling you but got your voicemail.....
SteveB
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phatduckk said:
That's a bummer, but it's better to find out now than to have her string you along. It's good of her to tell you. Move on.
ras1983
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hey man, imagine how boring life would be without these dramas.
on a serious note, you both need to move on. please don't think i'm putting you down or anything, but if its over its over, and all that you can do is look forward.
on a serious note, you both need to move on. please don't think i'm putting you down or anything, but if its over its over, and all that you can do is look forward.
TSanders
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Dang Arin. Hope things get better soon bro.
Best from GA.
Best from GA.
phatduckk
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ebmuscmanlvr83 said:
Just for some irony and since you brought up GA ... I have a an ex-girlfriend in GA... we broke up a long time ago and we're super good friends and always talk to eachother about everything.
so the morning after all this went down i called her to talk and she said "umm, thats strange cuz me and my boyfriend had the same thing go down last night too".
musta been a wierd ass day in general.
Breakups are rad cuz it gives me an excuse to bust out my old Slayer CDs
phatduckk
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ras1983 said:please don't think i'm putting you down or anything, but if its over its over, and all that you can do is look forward.
no worries - i dont feel put down. i know the spirint of the comment and dude,*youre right
In a band it's more important to get along than to be with the best musicians in the world.
One cool thing I like about you is I feel that if you and I were in a band together it would be successful.
We could do classical punk (Clunk?)
One cool thing I like about you is I feel that if you and I were in a band together it would be successful.
We could do classical punk (Clunk?)
phatduckk
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NorM said:
HA - that would be rad. i wonder what the hell that would sound like. I think we'd hang out and smoke a lot and play lots of music
tk said:
na, James was messing w/ his bike and we had to postpone the thing. I did have a bunch of non-free vodka and that helped
I'm actually doing real good. we talked for a long time last night and things make sense even tho its a bummer. but shes best friend and amazingly enough she feels the same way - so we'll definately hang out n stuff.
Dr Stankface
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Good to hear things are getting better for you buddy!
phatduckk
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OK
i had no idea this would work but the good vibes you guys sent seemed to to the trick. Things are back on but "slow" so that we dont get all caught up n rush into anything.
so thanks guys
i had no idea this would work but the good vibes you guys sent seemed to to the trick. Things are back on but "slow" so that we dont get all caught up n rush into anything.
so thanks guys
TSanders
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phatduckk said:OK
i had no idea this would work but the good vibes you guys sent seemed to to the trick. Things are back on but "slow" so that we dont get all caught up n rush into anything.
so thanks guys
Dude, I am very glad to hear that. Good vibes your way is the least I could do. Youve done the same for me.
shamus63
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phatduckk said:OK
i had no idea this would work but the good vibes you guys sent seemed to to the trick. Things are back on but "slow" so that we dont get all caught up n rush into anything.
so thanks guys
Cool! Maybe we'll all meet up for beers in the near future.
