Beware on money orders too. Forgeries are common with previously used serial numbers. The money will actually clear into your account and then a month or two down the road your bank will take the money back. Meanwhile, you've already shipped the item. There's a number to call to verify a serial number has not been previously used or was used for a different amount.same as above...Paypal is the easiest, but after a certain amount they charge you....usps money order i think is the best....no fees, and you can cash them at a post office...beware of cashier's checks in my experience....they can be forged easily and banks put a hold on them....good luck
PayPal is kind of a drag when the fees diminish what you made on the instrument, but it's very secure. Unfortunately, you can't get the money in your hand or your bank account for a couple of days. It just sits there in PayPal's coffers until you transfer it into your bank account, and then, it won't clear for a few days, which kind of sucks. The way around that is to get a PayPal debit card, I believe. That way you can access the money right away. I'm thinking I'm going to get one of those PayPal debit cards the next time I want to sell on EBay or any other site.
Overall, even with the fees, I like the security of PayPal. Personally, I'd do the transaction by PayPal and ship the instrument. Sure, it will cost you some money to ship it and to use PayPal, but I like the security that PayPal and shipping allows me to have. You can't be too careful in this day and age. Who knows? You could be selling to a criminal who would harm you during the transaction. Then, you'd be injured (or worse), without money, without a bass, needing money for medical treatment. Presumably, you sold the bass to generate money, right? With a scenario like that your bass is gone, and you need even more money than before. Okay, so, maybe, that's a little paranoid, but...you never know. Personally, I think of the cost of PayPal and shipping is worth it to prevent such bizarre scenarios from happening.
Also, it's just a hassle to have to spend time driving to do a face-to-face transaction. Think about your time. You have a roundtrip to consider. There's obviously the cost of gas to consider, the depreciation on your vehicle. So, meet halfway? Okay. You'll spend maybe two hours in the car doing this. Drive the whole 100 miles (which no one is suggesting)? Okay, that's 200 miles of driving, which may approach 4 hours of your time. Do you want to spend half a day on this transaction? Time is valuable, perhaps, priceless, IMHO. Okay, fine, the buyer does the driving to you. Well, do you want them to see where you live? That brings you back to security issues. Bringing the buyer into your home could open a Pandora's Box of problems. Bad idea, IMHO.
So, to sum it up, I say get a PayPal account. Ship the bass. It will cost you money, but I think that's the safest, most convenient thing, especially if you have a Post Office, UPS Store, or FedEx location near you.
Before internet transactions existed, we sold instruments mostly face to face. With someone that close I'd rather deal cash and carry...no wasted fees, and you be wasting just as much time having to look for a shipping box, then wasting fuel and time going to the UPS or Fedex store. It can be a done deal in faster time. Have the buyer come to you...doesn't have to be at your house, but may the shopping center or mall closest to you.
Sure are alot of paranoid folks here...you're selling a bass, not dealing guns and ammo. Bring a friend if you're not the tough guy type.
Oh and if a 50mi drive is going to cost you $50 for the round trip, then leave the blown '70 Chevelle 396 at home and take the wife or girlfriends Honda instead.
Im going to sell my bass but didnt know what the best way to accept money from someone living 100 of miles away from me.