Just a couple of comments ...
The first thing that should have been done (as it states in the warranty information) was to call Ernie Ball Music Man. Nobody else knows out guitars like we do. Going to a local repair shop, or to a Guitar Center, or asking the bum on the street for advice will only further confuse the issue.
I don't believe it is fair to judge a company's customer service when you have never given them a chance to resolve your problem.
There is no way we at EB/MM would have ever told anyone "sorry you're out of luck" - Perhaps someone has us confused with another outfit?
I personally handle most of the customer service situations that come in, and those words do not exist in our vocabulary.
Fret boards cannot be "removed" without ruining the neck. The glue we use to hold the fretboard to the rest of the neck is about 3 times stronger than the wood we use. That should have been a sign that maybe this was bad advice.
Our customer service is first-rate because we make it a priority. All we ask is that we be given a chance. We can't fix a problem that we are not aware of.